We broke up about 2 weeks ago and i asked for her to forgive me today for what i did, which was testing her which she thought i was playing mind games, so she felt unappreciated. Now that she forgave me, my real question is that would she still like to have a second try with me.. i don’t want to give her any pressure.. im just wondering if this subject of second try will be brought up later.. she is a firm believer of second chances. But at the moment im still not sure if she will do that with me.. wish me luck. please give any advices that you find to have any help in my situation. thanks =)

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About 2 months ago, my ex broke up with me for another girl. Now he sais he wants to go back out with me because he misses me and sais he made a mistake for leaving me for this other girl. He’s still dating that other girl but he said he would break up with her for me. I really want to go back out with him but I’m not sure if I should because of what he did and my friends and family don’t like him. That’s another issue. I miss him so much. I couldn’t give him an answer but he told me I can tell him tomorrow.

My heart isn’t agreeing with my head, and I’ve had two people give me totally different advice.
What should I do?

I had met with her in 2005 and I was having friendship withher 3-4 months before confessing my feelings.We dated only 1 month but later she left me when I was in Europa in order to see my parents. The reason she said 2me was that she is moving 2another state&she wants to end up before getting involved deeply 2me.I had accepted it and said I will move with her once I find a job close 2her as I am in love 2her.We stayed as friends but 3 months later after she leaves me she started 2 be with her ex saying that she loves him.She was 1year with him I told him that was a cheating ,unfairness and disrespect 2me when you were saying these reasons 2me but not applying for him.We made a huge fight because of that&I ended up my friendship with her.Later I got an offer from the company she works which would cause me 2stay in the USA&I declined the offer in order to protect her happiness by putting my immigration in the USA into risk&moved to another state.Now I learned that she broke up from him

Hey, I’ve been struggling a bit for about 2 years now with being bisexual, I’m really confused to be honest about my sexuality, it’s sort of like this. I’m also 14 and a guy, I’m pretty feminine and I have a lot of the stereotypes associated with gays.

Whatever I want from a relationship is with girls, I love having that emotion and comfort with them and having to support them when they are in need and stuff like that, like a 1+1=2, I’d love to have a family one day with kids and just feel the love you know?

But on the other hand, guys to me are sort of my wild side, they are the ones I don’t look for relationship but they are they ones who turn me on and I like checking them out, more so then girls.

It’s killing me because I don’t want me being gay interfere with my straight side and my life because nobody knows I’m literally gay, I act girly but no one knows I like guys too, I mean, I’ve never had a girlfriend, I’ve had a few girls who had a crush on me but meh, if I want to be relationship, I want to know the girl before anything, which is what I’m getting to now.

This guy, he is just the most PERFECT guy you can ever imagine, his body, his looks, his personality his everything! As much as I would wish for him to be a closet gay using his gf (ex now idk) as a cover, there is a 0% chance anyways. Also, I don’t really talk much with him or his gf, his gf on the other hand I have a crush on as well, both of them are crushes and it’s sort of killing me to choose between either 2, deciding wether or not I’m gay or straight.

Also, I have a crush on this girl who was my bff for a while but we don’t talk anymore, have her #, fb and have her in my classes but we stopped hanging out after a while, I asked her out one time but she said no and then we got into a fight but then we rekindled our friendship again, idk if she might have wanted to go out with me at that time but I got a major crush on her at that time too, it’s funny cuz one time she asked me to hang out with her and her bf (ew, I was literally better than him) and literally, the next day she broke up with him and wanted to hang out with me again so I was like ok? But I never had the balls to ask her out again so our friendship doesn’t get ruined a second time :/

So anyways, nobody knows I’m gay, I’m half christian half atheist, weird I know, I sort of believe in God but more of like a very realistic fairytale idk, I know my family sometimes considers me being gay but never say it, I don’t tell them either, I have not told anybody, so I’m just torn between 2 sides of me that I can’t get decide which side to go on.

So yeah that guy is gorgeous, his gf not so much but I still have a crush on her anyways <3 him and his gf are bff’s with my cousin, and she hates me.

I really hope he broke up with her so that maybe one day I could go out with her, but a guy can dream right? Maybe if she doesn’t work out I could see if he really is a closet gay he fits a few stereotypes too, more so then me at some points.

Also, I’m a big flirt when I get the chance, but I’m the type of guy who doesn’t care about sex if I’m with a girl, I just want to make her feel loved and be loved <3 hopefully I’m not going to be a loser all my life and I can get my life together and find a nice girl and start a family, but before that I wouldn’t mind having fun with a few guys I’m an emotionally alert person, I have depression and there are lots of financial and school problems but I always end up coming out of things with a smile, I’m very observant of my actions and others as well.

Thanks, please reply with any tips if you can, I’m SOOO SORRY for my extremely vague question, please don’t just read this and move on, reply something
Well thanks a lot for the answers you guys! it helped a lot.

The girl wrote on her fb saying she’s single and the guy seemed pissed on aim lately, haven’t seen him at school though (he’s in my classes but the girl goes to my cousins school).

Also they fight A LOT, like way more than the average couple, and he flirts with his ex everyday during class, they are a TA for the same teacher, I said I was pretty observant and I know for sure they have the hots for each other, not to mention his ex is in one of the classes he isn’t and everytime she talks about him, this has been going on for like years now.

I actually like the girl more than the guy because well, as I said in girls I look for a loving relationship and if he’s going to be mean to her I wouldn’t want that so I would want to show love to her too, but it seems ironic doesn’t it I think it’s I hate him and love him lol!

im just wondering because my ex-boyfriend broke up with me like two months ago (we were going out for two months) and we were both each others first bf/gf. nothing really went wrong, there was just a misunderstanding thing and he was having some family issues. and im still in love with him…i just want to know how many of you have been in this situation and have had a second chance when everything seemed hopeless. if so…how did it turn out?
please reply
thanks so much!
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Basically my ex was my first real boyfriend. He was first guy I ever kissed, had sex with and truly loved. I got pregnant by him in February and he said he’d leave me if I didn’t have an abortion so I got one in March and we officially stopped talking in April but kept hooking up every few weeks.

He texted me a week ago asking why I don’t talk to him and I told him it was because I had no reason to. He came by my house and we talked for hours about when I was pregnant and stuff like that. I told him I regretted it everyday and that I actually wanted a child now. He said it would be different this time because I wanted it, etc. So we both agreed I’d get pregnant again. Every time I’m with him he wants to know if I still love him, why I love him, why I wanna be with him and stuff like that. We had sex yesterday without a condom and he didn’t pull out. I’m torn between taking the morning after pill and doing nothing and hoping I become pregnant.

He isn’t the type to ignore me, I’d text him when I was pregnant the first time and he’d be there in a second so I have no fear that he’d bail on me. I want this baby to keep him around for good and he said he wants a baby with me because I want one with him and that maybe one day we’d get married. The main thing is… he tries to hookup with girls every chance he gets. He tells girls on Facebook everyday that they look sexy in their pictures, he adds random girls to get their numbers and I want that all to stop. (He is 23, turning 24 in March. I’m 20, turning 21 in July)

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

We been together for two months and just recently I broke up with her because she said straight up (via txt msg) that she manipulated and took advantage of me, but honestly doesn’t realized she doing it. She has been unsure about our relationship and I told her that she need to find out what you really want in life and be 100% sure of it. Also i asked her if she really willing to fix things up with herself for me. I realized she doesn’t seemed to be happy in her heart with herself as well, and I know I can’t fix that, only she can. I’m giving her some advice because she is still young (she’s 20, almost 21. I’m 22.).. Now she has txt me asking me "how im doing and such" and that she wrote down lots of notes about her mistakes and such and wants to tell me in person. The thing is after she broke up she felt really bad and such and should i ask her these things? are you really genuinely interested in spending time with me? as well as willing to change your negative behaviors and the consequences of your actions? HOWEVER I think that if you are changing yourself to be in a relationship with me again, then you pretty much are sacrificing your freedom for the benefit on me.. sorry for the LOOOONNNGG story, this is my 1st relationship and i would love some input and suggestions! thanks and appreciate it very much!

My girl left me about 4 months ago, should I go after her? I want to but I can’t seem to find money to get there; you see we live in different states. She visited me for a week in April and well it was great at first then it got bad. I realize now that I treated her like crap and will I regret everything I did and I want your opinions, what would a guy have to do to get you back? I’m planning to go visit her at her work when I get the money but it seems hopeless. My friends cheer me on but my mother says that I’m stupid. I really am confused and if you tell me to follow my heart; it tells me to go see her. I love her and I don’t want to lose her, I’m desperate. Would you girls think it’s "true love" if I go see her and beg for her forgiveness to take me back? Even though she says "no" I am still willing to spent my money on her and go see her. All I want from her is her forgiveness and for her to talk to me once more, but nonetheless I will still love her with all my heart.

So i went out with a guy for like a day and broke up with him the next i felt really bad cause he was "in love" with me. And the reason i broke up with him was because i was afraid i wouldn’t be as good a girlfriend as all his exes were. I never stopped liking him but he thought i was just using him to get my ex back. I wouldn’t do that to him especially since he was a great friend. And i have been thinking about him alot lately and i feel really bad for what i did and i kind of want him back but he likes my friends. =/ I really want him to give me another chance and i know i probably don’t deserve it but i broke up with him cause i was scared to fall in love and him fall out. Please help…how do i get him back?? =/
I broke up with him like 1 month ago…. =(