I am living in America, my wife is living in the Philippines. We have been married for one year, and have known each other for 5 We’re still working on the papers to get her to America, but maybe that won’t happen now because of recent events. We had an argument on our anniversary party at her parents house in the Philippines. We were both drinking, and we got into a big argument in front of everybody. We finally went to bed, still pissed off but then she gets up and says, I need to go talk to my sisters.

She went upstairs for about 5 minutes, then came back to bed. I want to fix things and can’t sleep. I decide to go upstairs and talk to the sisters to see if I can find out some things. One sister (one I’ve never gotten along with) comes to talk with me alone, and I start asking about the problem me and my wife had and how we can fix it.

She doesn’t answer anything, and actually brings up some more serious issue, that my wife is a lesbian with her best friend. Originally, I blow this off and try to stay on course with the current problem, but she continues on and on. She even gets other sisters of my wife to back up her story. I get really distraught, and lose focus on the original problem.

This new issue consumes my thoughts, I pack my bags and then I end up calling my mother from the Philippines. It’s a rural area, and I have to leave the house and go up a hill to do it. I didn’t know who else to talk to. I don’t normally call my mom about anything, but obviously this new story hurts me. As I left the house to call, my wife is now awake, talking to her parents.

No answer from my mom, but I leave a message. As I come down the hill, Rose is at the bottom waiting for me, and says she is sorry. I also apologize and we hug. I tell her the new information I’ve been told, and she says it’s not true. I’m still consumed with the thoughts, and we decide together that we can’t stay at the house any longer. We pack our things, and leave her parents place at 4am. We end up continuing our vacation, exploring the Philippines together.

We did have one more argument, similar to the first one, shortly before I left Philippines.

When I got home to America, another sister contacted me online and told me of the same lesbian relationship.

That idea has finally been squashed, we think. My wife is now moving out of her home with her family, to get her own place. The "other woman" is in another part of the country, so I don’t have to worry about them living together at this time. We’ve been through a lot with this, and now my wife is questioning our relationship. She says she may never want to come to America with me, but she still loves me. She says she needs time to think. We’re only going to contact each other once a week during this time. My reactions were extreme during all this. Excessive crying and yelling, which isn’t normal for me, but who deals with problems like this every day.

I was taking Chantix to help me quit smoking while there. I’ve found out now that it can cause depression, and even suicidal thoughts, which I was having before. I’ve called the doctor, he’s told me to stop taking it immediately.

The original problem had to do with me wanting more attention from my wife on our anniversary. I had become "needy" and wanted to stop partying and hold her in bed. I wanted her all to myself, but she wanted to stay up and party. American anniversaries are usually private, but apparently there, it’s a big public get together with family.

I haven’t talked to her since Saturday. We used to talk every day. It’s difficult for me, but I do believe after all this mess, that she’s right to want some space. Having 4 sisters lie about you, and have your husband acting out because of Chantix wouldn’t be easy for anyone to deal with. I miss her.

Did the sisters make it up out of envy? I’ve always fought with them, but in the past I’ve defended my wife well. They never came up with a story like this before either. Did my wife tell them to do it because of the original argument? Should I just shut up and wait like I’m supposed to? How long should I wait?

im married with children and until recently was very happy, my first love came back on the scene after coming across him on internet chat site and i found out his wife had recently died, and he was now a widowed parent. the crazy thing was that at the time she passed on i kept thinking about him, this also happened when other bad things had happened in his life such as losing his parents etc,
freaky i know. so we got chatting online and he told me he had motorbike and then i told him i was taking lesson so he said he`d give me some lessons to help me. So we arranged to meet. i went to his house and when he answered he looked exactly as he did 10 years previous and he said how i looked amazing!!! he gave me a go on his bike then got chatting about our lives. we talked for hours it was so nice, he showed me the piccies of his wife and child 6 hours passed before i left, i pecked him on cheek and told him not to leave it so long next time. He then sent me a text sayin i should visit again so i did!! and once again hours passed and we talked about us , he asked why we never stayed together and he asked if i`d ever thought of him etc. Truth is ive always cared for him and the more i see him the more i fall for him. i feel so excited when he rings or texts but sad that im doing this to my husband who is the sweetest,kindest person ever. What do i do??if i carry on this way everyone`s gonna get hurt if i end it i`ll never know and still always want him. A wierd thing happened when i asked about his tattoo on his back, i knew the shape,the colour yet i`d never seen it or even been told about it!!! is this fate!!, to make things worse he says he`s always loved me!! we were in and out of each others lives from the age of 11 to 21, 10 years later he`s back! what shall i do? end my marriage or end this fantasy??

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My best guy friend left the school i went to 3 years ago and now i’m in high school he goes to the same high school. He was always loud and hyper around me but now hes really shy and he always looks down when i look at him and smiles and i always catch him staring at me. I really like him but does he like me back?

he asked this guy (the one i used to like but he hurt me) how I’ve been doing and the guy replied "oh, that fatty…" and he didnt answer the question. my best friend got really pissed and almost punched him and said "She’s not fat! In fact shes nowhere near fat!"

after school when i talked to him on MSN this is what happened:

Scared of the dark (My best guy friend): hi maki-chan!! ^^
UsagiChyuu (me): hey hiro-kun!! ^_^
Scared of the dark: I miss you already >.< i want the weekend to be over so i can see you
UsagiChyuu: Same here >.<
Scared Of The Dark: so, you wear glasses?
UsagiChyuu: yeah, i guess its good since i look ugly with out glasses lol
Scared Of The Dark:
I wanna tell you some thing.
So listen,
1) Youre not fat youre skinny
2) Youre not ugly youre really pretty with or without glasses
3) I like you just the way you are
UsagiChyuu:
awwh thnx )
Scared Of The Dark:
I wear glasses too sometimes xD
UsagiChyuu:
I bet you look relly kawaii (cute in jap) in them
Scared Of The Dark:
really?
UsagiChyuu:
But you look so so so kawaii anyway xD
Scared of the dark: Thanks ^^
UsagiChyuu: Np
UsagiChyuu (me) said:
i had a relly random dream…you were edward cullen and i was bella swan o.O and you were a vampire lol
i woke up freaking in the night
Scared Of The Dark >.< said:
Lol
Me: Edward Cullen
You: Bella Swan

it kinda goes
will you go out with me?
jk
UsagiChyuu said:
o.O f*ck, you scared me…
Scared Of The Dark said:
err my cousin said that
srry
sorry
im sorry
sorry
UsagiChyuu said:
awwh its otay ^^
Scared Of The Dark said:
umm BRB
UsagiChyuu said:
okay
Scared Of The Dark:
im bac
UsagiChyu said:
great
Scared Of The Dark:
Weird dreams just RANDOMLY come :S
UsagiChyuu: said:
uhuh…
Scared Of The Dark:
about the situation we were talking about before. DONT EVER CUT YOURSELF AGAIN. you hear me? just promise that you will never harm yourself i dont want you to get hurt. and i will always be there for you no matter what okay? and if you fall in love make sure its with the right guy…
UsagiChyuu: Dw i wont cut anymore wow, youre the first person im actually listening to who told me not to cut myself
thats not all of the convo

btw he never called me really pretty before, thats a first and he always blushes when hes around me.

does he like me?

My first real love broke up with me tuesday. It was so bad that i had to skip school the next day. We had dated 8 and 1/2 months. It was the most painful thing I have gone through. It hurt even more because it was sudden and he gave me no reasons. I’m better now. But how do I bounce back to my beautiful happy self. I want to change my look so I will get noticed by other guys. I don’t want to make him jealous. That’s just plain cruel; I don’t follow in rude behavior. But over the summer I’m changing my look. I’m 16 going on 17. I’m 5’6 and skinny with some curve. I have olive skin, dark brown eyes, and long brown hair. Unfortunately a little skin issues which I’m trying to help but not much you can do but take care of it. I want to be a bombshell for next year. Can you help me. Maybe give me ideas and pointers on anything pertaining to fashion. Maybe some pics of hair and makeup would be nice. I’m not a huge fan of makeup though I like to look beautiful naturally. So the more natural the better. Maybe some cool perfumes that are delicate and beautiful like flowers.

thanks so much for helping me out of my slump. And also thanks for reading this huge passage. I appreciate it.
hahaha no. I didn’t turn ugly. I just want to look 100% again. I need updating. Besides I like feeling beautiful.
oh no no i don’t want to be a hoochie mama either. Just beautiful. I’m not that sorta girl. I’m within the top 3 students in my class. I know better.

my first love left me and i cant figure out a way to give me a chance to prove i can make the promises he left me for he said i broke to manny like taking care of my diabetes going to school regularly getting along with my parents keeping my room clean ect. those kind of things but im working on them he couldn’t even break up with me himself he got his mom to do it she just blocked my number. his friends have been talking to him trying to get him to give me a chance but hes not giving in and i dont know what to do because i know im going to change i love him so much i need him and i know he loves me too so idk y hes doing this it was so out of the blue we were doing good i have no way in contacting him besides getting friends to check on him what can i do to prove to him i can change and make him happy what can i do to get him to come back to me we have so much together im 16 ive known him since i was 11 we’ve been dating for almost 2 years we know everything about each other we lost our virginity’s to each other we were so close we were always there for each other he promissed me hed marry me one day but it just ended i honistly think its his moms fought this happened she blocked the numbers and everything shes the one who convinced him i wasnt good for him he didnt even have a word to me it was all his momi need him i dont have much support in my life he always has been my family what can i do to win him back and beleive me
i also have no way in talking to him in person…everyone who talks to him says hes dead sat on it he thinks him leaving me would make me happier and do things for me and not him but its not for the better i really isnt i have no way in messaging him or anything

My girlfriend and I recently broke up. She broke up with me cause I wasn’t giving her enough space when she wanted it. She told me she doesn’t love me anymore and it’s bye forever, she said she won’t give me anymore chances to be back with her. I don’t want to lose her I still love her very much she’s my first love. Now I regret what I did to her before and now I’m giving her her space even though we broke up and I hope shell change her mind about wanting to come back to me. I just need some help on how to get her back from here. We’ve been together for 7 months.

I have been married now what going on 4years. I have never cheated never given out my phone number to another man. But just recently I got back in contact with my first everything. Now my first love I have never stopped loving, but I also love my husband. At night I find myself thinking about this other man. But the crazy thing is that I am taking a family vacation soon and my first love will be where I am going at the same time. Now we hung around the same crowd, what can I do. We talk nightly, its like nothing has changed, like no time has elapsed since we last spoken or seen on another. He has family (not married) but still contends his love is true. Is it possible to love him and my husband. How can I stop myself from the feelings that I feel for them both. There have many times that I have thought of my first love before reconnecting with him. My husband is wonderful but difficult, my opposite, my other guy seems to fit me (we don’t live in the same state). I dont know. I’m torn

Okay, so I have a 6 year old mini lop named Precious, and I’ve had her since birth. Her parents were both very sweet and loved attention.. When Presh was a baby, she loved it, too.. But I stopped handling her, so now she’s skittish and such… I had other rabbits, that I released into my backyard, but Presh is tiny compared to the wild rabbits out there and I know she wouldn’t last.. She got out a few years back, and two weeks later I found her in my driveway, beat to hell and waiting for us to find her… I know she’s scared of people and my dogs, so it must of taken a bad beating to get her to come back…

Anyways, I want to bring her inside… I sort of know how to train them, caues my first rabbit was well trained.. He wasn’t an inside rabbit, but he came in at least once or twice a week, and he knew that he couldn’t go in the house cause I’d take him outside immidently if he did, so he learned to sit by the backdoor when he needed to go, cause he didn’t like when I was mad at him…
My main concern, is that I have a 9 year old chocolate lab that is my best friend. He follows me around and sleeps in my room, so I have to get them to be friends… I know he wont hurt her, he just wants to smell and to be honest, probably likes scaring her.. I want to know the best way to get her used to him, cause my main goal is to let her run around my room (when I’m there, of course) and have them not be bothered by eachother… I know that it’s easy to give them a heart attack so I want to know the best way to go about this… I plan on getting them used to eachother before I move her in.. I know that this will be a long process, along with saving up the money to get all the things I need and getting her used to human contact.. Like I said, when she was a baby, she got handeled daily.. As her name states, she was my favorite of the litter and was "my Prescious" cause she’d fall asleep in my shirt.

Anyways, and tips and advice will be very appreciated!! Also, any tips on litter box training and stuff like that, I’d be very glad to hear!

Thanks for your time
Thanks, both answeres helped Yeah, one of the rabbits I released was born in the wild, he got stuck in our window well when he was a bun and we kept him, which I now regret.. But the other two I released, it was where other wild rabbits are and I watched them for a bit before I left, but I do agree, I could of found indoor homes for them. :/ And I released them because I felt bad that they were in cages lol I could take care of them, I just think that an animal like that should roam free… Big reason why I want to turn Presh into an indoor animal.. Anyways, thanks to both of you

This is going to be long and thanks ahead of time.

I am now 17 years old and I have a mother who works 5 days a week and a father who had lost his job a year ago and sat home for 6 months with drinking problems while my mother supported him me and my brother. he recently got a job 5-10 months ago and the alcohol problem he has does not go aaway. Last year I argued with him in the kitchen he took a glass pot cover and threw it at me with force and i ducked and it hit the fridge and smashed into pieces. My mother got up and started to fire back at him trying to protect me. He took a brook stick and pushed it up my mothers mouth causing her gum to bleed she cursed him out and called the cops. From then on she got an order of protection but since he got another job my mom decided to mend things. I talked to my mom and she told me how this problem never happened when they got married but when i was little and full of sense to know what was happening say from 8 years old since then he kept drinking and drinking and my mom would put up with it. I asked her why not move out , she tells me "do you think i want to move out, I love him but for my children (me and my brother whose 3 ) how she is going to have to see what to do. My dad takes off like 3-4 days every 2 weeks and does not want to go to work complaining that it is too hard blah blah blah. Yesterday when my mom went to work and he was home he went outside to buy alcohol and i got fed up i cursed him out and locked him outside of our house. He went to the backyard and got severely drunk as always cursoing so lound all the neighbors would hear. It is so embarrasing to go outside now. My mom is currently looking for places to rent and she told me how she and her mom and dad would have to get a floor since renting aparments has become so expensive now. Since her mother and father lives downstairs she wants them to come with me her and my brother. I personally hate them because a long time ago they accused me of something i didnt do and when they found out i didn’t do it they were ashamed and for say about 4 months i did not talk to them. now my other grandma who lives an hour away from us does not care about her son becuase she has tried so much to help my mother and father. She told me how she only cares about me and my future and willing to take me in in case of anything and help me go to college no matter what the cost however she is very old and her family does not live past 65-70 and she is like 63,64. but works 2 jobs and is a very independant person. Now if my mom moves and gets divorce where do i go, what do i do i cannot deal with my mother crying every day my head is so confused school is starting soon and for someone who always had the basics and moree from both parents i fear this is the first time i wont spend so much on going back to school stuff or probally nothing at all. I dont know what to do. I have a part time job at a medical office and soon to get another job at my school for saturdays. That is still not enough to get my own place. it is so hard and I just dont know what to do anymore. Sometimes I consider just running away and let god see what to do with me. Sometimes i thinka bout running in front of a passing car and then my father would realize. I just dont know what to do anymore like i used to a year ago.